Query:
My son committed suicide... Can I help his Soul?
Vijay
Kumar:
Your son
committed suicide and yet you could not assess his intentions before the heinous
deed got committed? And now you desire helping the soul of your departed son.
How grossly you have misunderstood
life. In every suicide committed (by a child)... parents are fully responsible.
As a self realized being I can emphatically vouch that however trying the circumstances
be... the parents can mould the evil intentions of the child... by facing most
adverse circumstances head-on!
I
have a message for every child of the land... Committing suicide is not a rescue
from the prevailing circumstances... however hard the situation seems to be! Sometimes
in ignorance... children understand it all wrong. Hoping for a better manifestation
in next life... they enter into a silent pact with God (blank wishing never works
with god)! And that shall never be. Having committed suicide... one gains negative
points on scale of life and what one manifests in next life may be even worse.
Why?
Who is to
blame in the circumstances! Are parents solely responsible for all actions of
their children? No... It is not so! But if a child commits suicide... the parents
are indirectly abetting suicide for they continued to ignore the much needed attention
and support the child dearly longed for. This continued ignorance leads child
towards isolation and inculcates in one a feeling of desolation. And the culmination...
suicide by child!
We
need to understand it is not body that has taken the soul atman within. But vice
versa is true. It is soul atman within the body that has manifested the body for
its purification. Every soul atman passes through a maximum of 8.4 million manifestations
before it reaches the stage of salvation (moksha in Hinduism).
Your
son... yes, your son in present life may have been your granddad in one of your
earlier manifestations. In future manifestations it is possible you may become
the wife of your son. Your son was your son until the day it manifested the present
body. The moment your son committed suicide... the soul atman within became free
to manifest a new body... a new life altogether!
In
the system of God almighty... the activities of two manifestations are never interconnected.
That was not to be! If only I knew my best friend in present manifestation had
killed me in the last manifestation... would it be possible to maintain the same
relationship I now maintain?
A
body trying to help a soul... How can that be! One a source of infinite unlimited
power and the other absolutely limited by the senses and the mind. No comparison
indeed! No human body can willingly help another soul. Yes, one can help the soul
atman within our body by traveling the path desired by soul atman within our heart.
It
is soul atman within our body which is on its cosmic journey. It has a different
goal of life. And the goal is gaining original pristine pure form and going back
to the house of God Almighty (aka Baikuntha in Hinduism). Ever since the whole
Cosmos started with a
big bang and all the souls' atmans in the cosmos scattered all over...
it is only after a chain of 8.4 million manifestations these souls' atmans would
regain their original pristine pure form.
One
anomaly still exists... What if soul of your departed son haunts you which is
always possible. In the circumstances you need to think and think seriously...
what was it your son truly wanted to achieve in this life. If you can contribute
towards that goal... your purpose towards your son in this life would be served.
Try
fulfilling unfinished desires of your child. It is the only way of finding reprieve
for your past actions. And why should you do that! For the simple reason that
the soul atman of your son governed by doctrine of karma is bound to manifest
again in your very family! It is very unlikely that the soul atman of your son
manifests a new life in a new family. The theory of karmic bondage demands that
every soul atman manifests within the same family cycle for quite a few journeys
further on.
We
might not recognize the new body taken by soul atman of your departed son... but
system of cosmic life goes on! It is faith in Almighty God that paves way for
consolation within. We may not hold self responsible for the suicide of your departed
son but if we are ever forgiven by the soul atman of your departed child... it
shall reflect in mysterious ways of god almighty.
Always
there to clarify your queries (send
your query),
Vijay
Kumar "Atma
Jnani"
Vijay Kumar... The Man who Realized God in 1993 on Committed Suicide.
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Full text of query:
My son committed suicide---- What happened to his soul? Can I help his soul?
