Query: Now a days my mind is completely occupied by Kama. How can I overcome kama and
concentrate on other things?|
If going to the temple really helped... the whole community would be
sitting on the doorsteps of every temple in the World. Going to the temples is only a ritual and ritual never
helps one proceed on the path of pure Spirituality for most of the rituals are
followed blindly without any iota of the meaning of what is being discussed upon or
Belief in God is not related to going to the temples. Everyone has an
atman the soul within his self... and this Atman is of the same nature as God Almighty. atman the soul within
is but a minuscule form of God. It is because of this Atman (the soul) present within a body that we pray to god.
I have been in my life to a temple many times when I was young but I was
never told of the merits of going to a temple. Whenever I had a query... there was no one present including
my parents who were willing to satisfy my queries. At a certain stage in life I lost complete interest in the
temples... it is almost above 25 years that I have been to a temple excepting maybe once every year on the
insistence of my family and that to on the occasion of Mahavir Jayanti (the most revered festival of Jain
community... the birth date of Bhagwan Mahavira) the 24 Tirthankara of
Sex God Secrets
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If all the people of your age do not feel this urge... how will the
community grow by itself? We all are a part of the evolution. Not only we human beings... but also every
other form of life reaching the stage of puberty feels like this. If we channelise these powers to more
positive orientations in life then it is possible for us to become a Birla or a Tata in our life. On the
contrary we may expense with this positive source of energy and lose everything.
The Kama in every Human being be one a male or female takes over one
reaching the stage of puberty... thereafter it is only the merits in store which help us in our journey of
life. If our samskars (family traits of character imbibed in us) do not stop us then we might indulge in free
sex something that is totally prohibitive in the domain of God. AIDS has been sent on to this Earth by God
Almighty only to teach the free society a lesson in itself. The promiscuous behavior of a human being is
totally unacceptable and God never destined it for the Human animal to behave in this manner.
Three books the reference of which comes on most of the pages of my
website can make one reach the status of Birlas and Tatas. These books not only help one establishing a goal
in life but they also gave various clues as to how we can channelise this most creative form of energy.
Different ways for transmutation of sexual energy is perfectly defined in these books. The mention of these
books occurs on the following web page- Agni
The urge for indulging in kama must never be suppressed rather it should
be channelised in a more appropriate manner by transmuting the sexual energy to a more creative pursuit of
life as is the case with highly successful people in this World. Their success is primarily built on
transmutation of the most important of all the energies present within human beings... the sexual energy.
Every human being gets a dose of this energy every month be one a man or a woman. Most loose this energy
Retaining this energy and diverting it to creative pursuits in life gives one the desired impetus that is so
necessary to be successful in the present competitive World. There is a particular mantra chanting of which
relieves one of the ills associated with this bubbling energy. At this stage of life I would not be able to
disclose this mantra but all I can say is, treat every woman in the World as your mother, sister or a daughter.
There is no fourth dimension to this relationship.
This creative energy can also be put to rest by forming a goal in life.
The moment you start pursuing this career... this object-oriented goal of life... you shall not find time for
pursuing the God of love, the Cupid within us. All distractions from the other gender seem to disturb us only
when our mind is free of any useful work. If you do not look at a female from an object point of view... you
shall be able to control your desires to some extent.
Men and women are both part of the creation. One is attracted to the
other does not mean that we indulge in thoughts of the sexual nature which perturbs our normal working.
Gaining control over this part of the sense is the strongest in the life of a normal Human being... for
developing self realization as the goal of life... one needs to practice absolute celibacy for a continuous
period of 12 years minimum.
Nothing in this life is unachievable... we need to have a stronger
resolve! The moment you see a mother, a sister or a daughter in every woman you come across... you shall one
day cross over the threshold of kama, the God of love.
May God Almighty help you to develop a strong resolve in your life!
Always there to clarify your queries ( send your query),
Vijay Kumar "Atma Jnani" ... The Man who Realized God in 1993! Send your
Full text of query: I believe in God and his power. I goto temple
very often and I am 27, a male bachelor. Now a days my mind is completely occupied by kama. Is it my age or
myself. Does all people of my age feel this? How can I overcome kama and concentrate on other things? Please
suggest me and put me in light of wisdom.
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